• Making: Paper mandalas and/or mandala resin coasters. (Just a plan - this is a Teaser! Photos if/when I actually make them!)
  • Reading: Your Brain on Art by Susan Magsamen & Ivy Ross
  • House project: Hang hanger for my necklaces. Hang necklaces from hanger

No, I've made no progress on the above list since last week. I did complete a 1000 piece puzzle, and read a bit of a different book on parenting teen girls. It is called Untangled : guiding teenage girls through the seven transitions into adulthood by Lisa Damour. Apparently girls are supposed to turn into jerks to their family and prioritize friend group packs. Mine hasn't (yet), but I'm reading up on what to expect.

My fridge has given up on cooling, and it snowed so the kiddo is home. So instead of an early start to all the things, a workman is here taking apart my fridge. I'm having trouble focusing. I don't do well with workmen in the house. And it's distracting - will I get a new fridge? Will I fix this one? Should I price new ones? How much will the damage be? Should I throw out pickles and juice and grated parmesan if it hasn't been cool in 48 hours? Did critters get into the food I stashed in a box in the garage? (just checked: new one is $810 + $79 to haul away to the old and deliver the new.) Distracting.

I've started to plan my 2 weeks in Portugal for this summer, based out of Porto. If anyone has suggestions on what to do, please let me know! I like history/prehistory, art, wild landscapes, typewriters. I don't much like sitting around on the beach (for more than a hour or two). If anyone had a recommendation on where to learn Portuguese history - book, podcast, film - please let me know that too!

One of the things I got for Christmas this year is a water bottle with spaces for stickers of all the states. I've decided I'm not going to put any more stickers on it until I've written up memories of the stickers I've already stuck. More "States I've Been To" memory posts coming soon.

Water bottle with state stickers
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Good luck with the teen!
It's concerning - the book is a lot about how they find real world friends/friend packs and how that affects their actions. I'm worried because my kid shows little interest in real life friends. I think she has a few in school, but she shows little interest in those friendships during non-school hours.



On the plus side, there is also a lot of good advice on how to coach your teen into making choices that are appropriate and save face. Like "don't be that super friendly mom in public" so that the kid can blame you when she needs an out. Or how to handle when another kid is in a bad situation and asked your kid "not to tell anyone".
I’m not sure why being friendly in public would prevent one being used as an excuse. “Sure, my mom seems friendly, but she never lets me do anything dangerous.” Is there something else one for which one would need to be blamed?
How is Your Brain on Art? I think I had that on my hold list at the library and then forgot about it.

Whoops, never mind. Googled it, skimmed it, bought it. I definitely need this for work.