I always make fun of my husband for putting on a movie he's already seen 500 times.  It usually involves hunting for Russians in an adrenaline filled submarine, or some catastrophic weather event. I rarely repeatedly watch a movie if I can still remember the plot.  The exception to that is two John Hughes movies.  16 Candles and Pretty in Pink.  Ridiculous.  I know. 

What is it about Molly Ringwald that made her such an appealing adolescent "every woman"?  She didn't fit the 80s blond bombshell mold, the characters she played were always vulnerable but principled, and at the end of the story she always got the boy and he was a better man for it.

I was realizing that when my students see Molly Ringwald it may well be the equivalent of seeing "Gidget" when I was a kid.  What?  That middle aged lady was a teen surfer dreamgirl?  What?

This got me thinking about the 80s and the pop culture I consumed in the 80s. I can remember how important the word "individuality" was to me then.  Self expression was a crucial concept to 16 year old me, who had little else to really concern myself with. Looking back, I realize that I had a limited context within which to understand the idea of being an individual.  To me it was rebellious. It was punk rock. I had no idea how well it fit in with what it means to be an American and that long history that can easily take people down the path to libertarianism.  Punk rock.  That transition point where Anarchy and Libertarianism still coincide.

Back to John Hughes.  His movies were always set in mansions and on "the other side of the tracks".  Class was upfront and center in most of his romantic storylines. It was the barrier to true love in place of the grudges of feuding lineages. The feuds were between the popular kids and the outcasts- the kids with money whose parents appeared to be chronically out of town versus the kids whose dad was Harry Dean Stanton. And the subtheme of "being yourself" was always part of that plot line (and everybody was white too). His movies may have also paved the way for series like My So-Called Life and Freaks and Geeks, which I also consumed hungrily and with a sense of identification. Some of the resonances I see are an uncertainty about what will happen in the future, unrequited adolescent desire that seems like it will end the world, parents that don't understand, and life in the shark tank of high school.  Class issues creep in to the extent that teenagers ever really have an awareness of class at all beyond "my family doesn't have the same things that their family has".

Given the way the 2000s have gone, I'm surprised there isn't a revival of the working-class, oppressed teen, struggling against conformity theme in pop culture. I don't feel like I'm seeing it.  I wonder why that is. It strikes me that the 18-21+ year olds that I teach have a vastly different perspective on the world. The ones I interact with as a professor tend to be "joiners", but the ones that identify with me most tend to be the "change the world joiners" who participate in creating on campus recycling campaigns and who want to go on to study public health.  They are much more realistic about the world than I was at that age, but also frequently much more privileged in terms of what they feel entitled to.  They seem less alienated in the middle class way that I felt alienated as a kid.

I don't really know how all of this fits together, but I guess my question is- Is there contemporary pop culture that's as teen-angsty as those 80s movies?  The Perks of Being a Wallflower might come close. In 2014 what drives teen angst and what are contemporary teenagers rebelling against?

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8/25 '14 1 Comment
The class angle made him more than bubblegum. My daughter watches those movies now. In the last couple years she has spent more time with people not from her private school and she's a lot better for it.
 

As you've noticed by now, One Post Wonder got a major facelift today. Sean Puckett has done a sweet job, removing clutter and improving the user experience while respecting and enhancing the best of what was already there. I'm stoked to have a collaborator who grasps where I'm trying to go.

A few changes may take a moment to get used to. There is only one button to change your userpic now; it's on the "Me" page, where people had the most luck finding it. And the buttons to move text blocks, video blocks, and photo blocks appear only when necessary. The buttons to add new blocks appear only at the end of the article– but you can then use the arrows to rearrange the blocks. We both feel this is a good compromise to make things less confusing overall.

With a second contributor joining the project, now is a good time to review the core values of OPW:

No more than one post per day! That's the point. This rule may be bent but not broken. For instance we may introduce "indulgences" which recharge slowly, but you won't be able to post twice times a day, every day. Not even for money.

No big-brother filtering. The "one post per day" rule allows you to filter posts yourself. If you're not riveted, just don't click the arrow to keep reading.

This is a business, but you can opt not to be the product. We may profit from its operation, so long as we are able to focus on the best interests of our users as well as the bottom line. We will eventually explore operating OPW as a "B corporation" to help lock this core value in place. We may display advertising, but you will have the option of paying a membership fee to see no ads.

You own your posts. You grant us a license to show them to people by posting them here. Duh.

Thanks again for believing in what we're doing. More improvements are coming down the pike.

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8/25 '14 16 Comments

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Tom and I talked briefly about how much time/date info to add to posts and while I think it would be nice to have something, right now no timestamp is tolerable... if odd. I feel like maybe eventually we'll have something, especially as there get to be "posts more than two weeks old" which we don't have any of right now.

I do think comments need a little more time context though.
Timestamp would be nice on the "finished" "product."
I like the idea of indulgences. And for some reason my mind is drawn to the scene in Tom Sawyer where, to the dismay of all, he winds up with a Bible for trading in a bunch of yellow, red and blue tickets.

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I hung out there for a while! But I don't recognize you from there.

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That's a name I rememberremember!
Design looks great - very nice!
Thanks. I keep tweaking and tweaking and I know one day I'll be just a gnarled skeletal lump with a magnifying glass in one hand and tablet stylus in another.
I love the new look!
Looks good. Is there a search function on the menu?
Probably. What are you hoping to search for?
Words...words.... Words! #Hamlet

Although at some point people will probably want to search by user name.
Slick work, catb- er, Sean.

"indulgences" is a wonderful name also.
Site looks great! Nice work gentlemen.
 
 
I think I am going with dashlane.Couldn't install keep ass on my mac and online with local hard backup via dashlane looks good enough.OPW: am I making a huge mistake here?
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8/22 '14 6 Comments
OMG, Dashlane is the greatest. Big Fan.

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That's awesome! Thank you!
I'm actually having fun rolling around resetting all my passwords.
So... it's been a while. What are your current thoughts on Dashlane? Do you still like it?
No experience with dashlane but if your heart is set on keep ass you can install "Kypass companion" from the app store. I've used keepass for years on Windows and Android and didn't want to give it up when I bought my Macbook. Works well enough and I use Dropbox to sync the password file between all my devices.
 

In my continuing effort for completism, despite having finished watching Series Two of Doctor Who on DVD, I'm not letting myself start Series Three (which I also have on DVD) until I've finished watching the contents of the last disc of the set, "Doctor Who Confidential".  Because apparently they had a show which was talking about Doctor Who stuff related to each episode.  Even cut down (the original 45-minute format was apparently edited down to closer to 15 minutes for the DVD release), it's taken me three separate sessions to get through them.  And then there's another item in there, David Tennant's Video Diary, which I started on before noticing how slowly I was progressing; apparently it's closer to 90 minutes long.  Not enough time for that tonight, though what I watched did seem interesting.

After I finish with that, I suppose it's on to Babylon 5 Season 2 rewatch Disc 1.  I already watched the special feature disc for B5S1, you betcha.  I feel less self-conscious going through the Special Features like that when it's just me watching on my computer, which may be why I've been doing it perhaps more than I usually would.

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8/22 '14
 

So apparently kickstarter is not the right way to fund scaling up your social network.

Their guidelines prohibit campaigns "to fund websites or apps focused on e-commerce, business, and social networking."

Interesting. But there are lots of ways to go about scaling the site, and the work before us right now doesn't require more money. It requires solving the riddle of building interest and bringing intact networks of friends aboard.

I stumbled across this discovery while hoping to answer an unrelated question: how to fund adding certain features to the Apostrophe open source CMS. That, my employer could do on kickstarter, but it sounds out of their usual line.

Today I changed logins so that your login should "stick" for a long time, rather than just the current browser session. And I added a little nudge to invite a friend if you haven't done so yet (or more accurately, not since today, since I just started keeping track).

Also, Sean Puckett shared a post about his work toward improving the look and feel of the site. Can't wait!

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8/22 '14 5 Comments
Have you considered indiegogo.com? It's the second-most trafficked crowdfunding site, which isn't really saying that much. You won't get a lot of traffic from the site itself, whereas in the recent campaign I ran on Kickstarter we got 31% of of our backers from people surfing on Kickstarter.com. But if you can get some media coverage and drive traffic to indiegogo yourself, I think it could work.

BTW hello! I like the site so far. Social media can be so noisy... this is much better.
Hi! Thanks for the impressions of indiegogo. I am pondering it, and it's helpful to know I need to bring my own audience.
What's the difference between a OPW friend and someone I follow on OPW?
Mutual follow, I think.
Right now, that's correct, it's mutual following that makes locked posts visible.

I didn't rush to do something more nuanced because people didn't prioritize it particularly high in my survey.

However, Sean is really motivated about it and I don't disagree with him.

So we're working towards a setup where, when you follow someone, you will then be asked if you want to give them access to anything special, or just plain follow them. And mutual follow won't be magical anymore.

(If someone unfollows you, though, they might still lose any special access you've granted. That kind of makes sense, because you'll start thinking of them as "gone," and they shouldn't popup SURPRISE! later with full access.)
 

OK, I will be good. 

My old boss invited me to his birthday at the Brewery.  It did not occur to me until this morning on the way to work that there was a good chance The Sphincter might be there.  It's a long  story.  But I hadn't seen Old Boss since Feb of 2013 when I left NASA with a boatload of angst, embarked upon 7 months of retirement followed by re-employment at a place that is, essentially, European. 

I went to the event anyway.  At a brewery.  I was kind of hoping there was an attached restaurant so I could get a burger. Um. Nope. 

So, I threw all caution to the wind and ate pizza, which I should not, and drank beer, which I also should not.  Since these things used to cause me intense discomfort, sinus pain and arthritis like pain for about 36 hours.  Well, on the theory that this is all a result of leaky gut syndrome and the fact that I missed lunch today made me stu...er adventurous.

My sinuses are a little unhappy.  So far, not so bad.  Haven't eaten "regular" pizza since before 2000.  It wasn't that great, but hell.   If my gut has healed up sometime in the last 14 years maybe there's hope!  Not 100% sure it's  "gluten" issue - since the "gluten free" beer in Bavaria still killed me.

Tomorrow will tell.  Or maybe tonight, is this the incipient headache or is it just me being hypochondriac?  Will not even consider checking the blood sugar, there's naught to be done about it.

I said not a word to the Old Boss about the beer/pizza and only a few about how awesome the new workplace is.  He was happy when I mentioned I still use one of his metrics (it's OK to wait on the customer, it's NOT OK for the customer to wait on YOU), and that I selected the "pig" stein out of the pile of give-away steins, of which I did not take a photo.  And we have a deal to take the motorbikes to Richmond.  Soon.

So if I can avoid serious joint pain and sinus explosions in the near future, life will have gotten both easier and harder.  Easier to worry about finding a meal away from home and harder to avoid the temptation of the evil carbohydrate.

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8/22 '14 4 Comments
Power, sister. Still dealing with a crazy list of restrictions. The good news is that when I adhere to them, which is basically all the time, I feel like there's nothing wrong with me.

Then I slip off the wagon and DAMN!

Currently my idea of a radical indulgence is putting a little forbidden ketchup on a (soy-free) veggieburger. Yeah, I'm a wild man.

I should be grateful that my digestive symptoms are, well, digestive. But then again, why feel grateful for any of this bullshit?
If it keeps you from eating stuff that's bad for *anyone...* then it's not so bad. But as a person who is an asymptomatic Type II Diabetic as long as carbs are strictly avoided I can attest to the sheer annoyance of having to find "things I can eat." It is also known that people with chronic conditions occasionally say "fukkit i'm gonna do X" which is pretty much what happened today. There may be other consequences - I know folks with unpleasant digestive side effects from wheat - and I haven't scarfed any in long enough that I don't really remember. Because once I realized I shouldn't eat it... I didn't.

And the whole idea of "wrong with" is problematic anyway. As an example, wheat is not something humans could even eat without enough tech to process it - so for the long majority of evolutionary history. So what is "wrong" with a human that doesn't tolerate gluten? Nothing, really.
My one lucky break, and it is a big one, is that gluten doesn't bother me at all.

But my list of dealbreaker ingredients is long and I functionally cannot eat in an A-list restaurant. If soy isn't in it, citrus invariably is.
Sounds like a super pain in the...er... sounds troublesome.
 

Yes, I'm working on revamping the design for One Post Wonder, with a goal of making the act of reading more joyous.  

I've made some good strides in test, but am also challenged by needing to do some home renos this week while the neighbour is away camping (so I can put a ladder up on the south side of the house).

Also there's the danger of RSI, which often happens to me when I type or mouse with too much "focus" for too much time. I felt a little of it yesterday and immediately walked away from the keyboard. 

Hopefully by Monday there should be some changes in production. I like the idea of OPW, and Tom's done some good work on building in functionality that makes it useful and usable.  So I guess my message right now is, bear with me, it will get better soon.  

Also keep posting, so I can have stuff to test against.

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8/21 '14 2 Comments
My Theraband FlexBar is great for helping that RSI dissipate. I got the GREEN one. It really does help.
Oh, those look like fun!